3. Stop writing the phrase, “not here for a hookup.” Do you have any idea how many women with whom I’ve “hooked up” that had that EXACT phrase written somewhere in their profiles? “A lot” would be a dramatic understatement. Let’s just say it has happened often enough that I’m starting to seek out such women, because it seems to be that they’re easier to hump than those who write things along the lines of, “I’m just here to bang.”You’re not fooling anyone (except perhaps yourself). You write “no hookups” because you feel as if you did hook up with a random gentleman from the Internet that you would be labeled a “slut.” And that’s true… but not by us. The irony of such negative labels is that they’re created and perpetuated predominantly by women.Men love chicks who sleep around. They’re GRRREAT (said in a Tony the Tiger voice)! Why? Because sex is fun and we love getting laid. The negative associations assigned to women and casual sex are a direct product of other women. Women constantly judge and compete with one another. Men? Eh, we just want to “get some stank on our hang-downs,” as my good friend Andrew has long said.Stop “slut-shaming” one another and the online dating world will be a much better, and more honest, place.
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Great read and so on point. I know your a dog lover as am I, but girls need to get rid of the solo pet pictures as well. Also the chest and leg shots without the face included. What are they hiding?
Also why is it ok for them to say Im tall and I like to wear heels so no short guys? (Im average height 5’10”) Fuck off!…if guys said must have minimum C cup and max BMI of 25 (No fatties) there’d be fucking war
”’Men love chicks who sleep around. They’re GRRREAT (said in a Tony the Tiger voice)! Why? Because sex is fun and we love getting laid. The negative associations assigned to women and casual sex are a direct product of other women. Women constantly judge and compete with one another.”
Everyone should sleep around, safely. But Im sure that having 1-2 partners wont make you a slut.You posted a facebook-picture where you said that women who have sex without knowing the guy for a while (first date) are sluts. I disagree. Having one one night stands doesnt make you to a slut, just my opinion. Having 10 one night stands in a year does make you a slut. But if you want to be a slut, be one. Im a slut too, I just have luck being in relationships all my life so that I dont have to fuck random people. But Im a slut, mentally (every woman is one ! )
I just think that women should only sleep around if they actually have an orgasm and enjoy sex. Not solely for attention. There are two types of ”sluts”, some are totally fine.