Men have to treat sex like this. If we were as selective as women when it comes to sex, we’d never get laid. We don’t even get laid enough as it is. So, when I position myself next you at a bar, I’m not trying to hit on you, I’m just trying to order a drink. If I spark a conversation at a bar, club or party, you know, a social environment, it’s because I’m being social. Don’t let it go to your head, I talk to random guys as well. When I get drunk enough, I’ll even talk to myself or even open up emotionally to the Uber driver.
At the end of the day, people talk to other people. It’s happened that way for thousands of years. Yes, I’m sure guys do hit on you, but I’m also sure most of the time you’re mistaking something as simple as making small talk while waiting for the bartender as getting hit on. If it were a 6 foot 8 bearded man standing next to him, I’m sure he’d be making small talk with him as well. Stop complaining about always being hit on. Believe me, you’re not that special. Deflate that head of yours and come to the realization that there’s a big difference between a guy who would fuck you and a guy who is trying to fuck you. I would go out of my way for a gourmet donut from Donut Bar, but I’d also eat a Twinkie if it were offered to me. You’re just the Twinkie. Get used to it.